I truly believe I did not choose to become a social worker, it chose me and it is who I am and
always have been. As a young child I always had the desire to help others. As I matured it was
always easier for me to concentrate on others by serving or helping others than dealing with my
own stuff. Through many ups and downs in life and completely failing at college, my purpose
found me or I found my purpose. I ended up working in the human services field at 19 years old.
Little did I realize then that it would be exactly what I needed and where I was supposed to be
during that time of my life.
Fast forward 15 years, I was still in the human services field, working with adults with
Developmental Disabilities. I worked my way up the latter in this field from weekend direct
support professional to a Residential Supervisor, to a Residential Operations Manager overseeing
5 group homes. It was during my time as an Operations Manager that a situation occurred
involving clients that made me tell myself I had to face my fear of failure and return to college to
get my degree in social work.
This epiphany came to me because of a situation involving a gentleman who resided in one of
the homes I oversaw. He confided in me that he was having sexual experiences with others in the
house and others within the agency. When I interviewed and spoke to the others it turns out that
these sexual experiences were not consensual but more coerced with a lack of understanding of
what was happening. As I obtained more information it turned out that this gentleman was a
victim of sexual abuse for years from his father where he was only doing what he thought was
“normal” and what he was supposed to do because it was his normal. It was what he was used to.
Long story short, in advocating for him and empowering him to share his story along with
teaching him I was inspired and knew that I found a passion for being a voice for those that were
silenced. I knew at that moment that I had the ability to do more but I would need to further my
education.
I had to overcome my fear of failure that kept me away from returning to college. For years I
created a narrative in my head that I was not smart enough, I was not capable of being successful
at college, and college was definitely not for me. I was wrong. We are what we tell our brains to
be. I had to switch my narrative and learn to talk to myself in loving ways rather than what I let
my traumatic experiences lead me to believe. I ended up finishing in the top 3 of my Social Work
undergrad class at Molloy University, along with being President of the Social Work Student
Association. I also finished my MSW with highest distinction from Fordham University.
I chose to become a social worker because I believe in the dignity, worth, and potential of every
individual, especially those facing adversity. Throughout my life, I have seen how social,
economic, and emotional challenges can affect people’s ability to thrive. These experiences
shaped my desire to work in a profession dedicated to advocacy, empowerment, and meaningful
change.

My interest in social work grew as I became more aware of the systemic barriers that impact
individuals, families, and communities. I observed how access to resources, support systems, and
compassionate guidance can make a significant difference in someone’s life. I was particularly
drawn to social work because it not only addresses immediate needs but also seeks to understand
and challenge the broader social conditions that contribute to hardship.
Social work aligns with my values of empathy, social justice, and service. I am motivated by the
opportunity to listen to people’s stories, support them through difficult moments, and help them
build on their strengths. I find purpose in working collaboratively with clients, respecting their
experiences, and empowering them to make informed decisions about their lives.
Additionally, the versatility of the social work profession appeals to me. Whether working with
individuals, families, or communities, social workers play a critical role in promoting well-being,
advocating for vulnerable populations, and influencing positive social change. I am committed to
continuous learning and ethical practice so that I can provide effective, culturally responsive
support.
Becoming a social worker is more than a career choice for me; it is a commitment to serving
others with compassion, integrity, and respect. I am dedicated to making a positive impact and
contributing to a more just and supportive society. It is not what I do but who I am!